“On the Fly” Musings and a Xennial DIY mission… Hello! This blog post is written with absolutely no plan. I was reading my Bible this morning, had a few astounding revelations and I realized, I need to keep writing here, but sometimes…life. It’s so busy right??? Time may seem so slow for some, but for…
After trauma, people often say, ‘I wasn’t myself.’ The truth is, neurologically, they weren’t. It’s called “grief brain.” Hello friends! If this is your first time reading here, I would love to give you a warm welcome. If you have followed my journey before, thank you. I think often, how little time we have; the…
The Mirror: Finding My New Identity Hello friend! Recently, I was cleaning a home (I clean homes on the side for extra income). I was cleaning a beautiful cherry wood mirror. You may have seen them. It was oval shaped and on a stand that allowed it to swivel. I paused longer than I should…
A Dream About Birds: A Reflection on Rest, Trust, and Faith Of all the animals in the world, and wow, God made so many, I can never stop loving birds. Horses are majestic. Lions, powerful. But birds? Birds are the ones I can’t stop watching, small, vulnerable, and somehow completely free. I always pay attention…
Pull up a chair my friend. I’d like to share another story with you. This is the story about how Bill came to understand and believe in Jesus. Saying the Name: Jesus I know, I just said that Name: Jesus. Jesus. It’s distinctive. It’s divisive. It’s controversial. It’s ridiculed, taken in vain and even offensive…
A New Year Prayer for Strength When You Feel Down Hello friends! Here it is AGAIN. A new year. Don’t get me wrong, I’m grateful, but wow! Already? Really? A couple of days ago, I looked back on my journal from a year ago. It was refreshing. I figured out financing for my roof, and…
Hello Reader and Friend. I would like to say that I put up this post shortly after the first part of my overview and thoughts on Mel Robbins’ video “8 Things to Tell Yourself Every Morning,” but (sigh) here I am, having taken a little longer than I planned. My schedule is sporadic and I…
🎄Our First Christmas Together: A Memory From 1996 Bill and I were married 22 years. We knew each other for 26.That’s a lot of Christmases. At the time I’m writing this, it’s December, and this will be my fourth Christmas season since Bill went Home. When thinking through all the Christmases we shared, it was…
Hello Friend! It’s a new day. Let’s Retrain Your Brain. How does your day normally start? Unfortunately, mine pretty much starts, most days, by waking up 30 minutes before my alarm goes off. You know that perfect amount of time that is long enough to go back to sleep but too short that by the…
What to Do When a Spouse Dies (Part One of the “Heart After Loss” Series) I don’t love talking about this part of my life, but it’s one of the main reasons I created this space.I want to share my faith, my stories, my life with Bill, our daughter, and the pieces of my journey…